Saturday, October 10, 2015

Don't Let Them Let You

She cared too much. She loved too deep. But what did she get? A stack of feelings which pulled her back and broke her apart finding it hard to see clearly....

***

There should be no place for people to step on your heart and leave you a scar or feel unappreciated in any way. To take control of yourself might be easy to say yet hard to do. But as you face the things you do in life, you find a way of getting there.

Most have probably been in that kind of state where you unconditionally accept the things you actually have an option for saying no to. The times where you stay in a certain zone that lets you flow with other people's mind but then make you forget your own. You drift into the dimension where you do you what you feel is right for others and sacrifice the chance to speak up because all you want to do is make them feel happy, loved and appreciated.

Like loving someone too deep that you eventually become blinded along the way. You let them grip your heart and control it in whatsoever way. You set your own feelings to a certain stance where you can no longer compromise with logic because the heart plays too much of a role. You consider everything becoming okay that you let that significant other do what they think is okay, and make you feel that it's just a normal feeling. Which obviously isn't.

Perhaps those pop-up people that run back and forth in your life only when they feel the need to. The ones that don't consider your presence. The ones that use you in vague or even obvious ways. You know the difference. It might be what other people do, but don't let that become you.

For most, it's part of the process of finding what you believe is true. For seeking those inner thoughts within.

It took me ages to learn to let myself appreciate me as a person - me as myself. To appreciate my own thoughts, my heart and the options I have. Though it's been quite a process, I'm slowly getting there. I've been able to say what I like and what I don't. And I guess it simply starts from there.

Don't welcome negativity in your heart and at the same time don't let yourself feel unappreciated. Put on a shield and block all that from entering. Know where you stand and never let other people put you down. Don't let them infect the positivity your willing to build in yourself. But in terms of that, still do your best to deliver what's good for yourself and others around you.

Appreciate your own being by letting yourself choose what you feel is best. By saying goodbye to what makes you feel like rubbish. By leaving the things that make your bright days dull.

There's more to life. More reasons to wake up in the morning and feel blessed that you have a whole day coming up ahead waiting for it to be filled with splendid moments. When you feel like situations are starting to put you down, don't let them. Because you have that option, in your mind and your heart. It's hard to do, but you'll eventually get there.

No comments:

Post a Comment